You know that feeling you get when you have a big adventure right around the corner? Maybe it's a big move, or an otherwise life altering change? You know it's coming, and it's a good and happy thing, but you've still got these days and weeks ahead of you and a whole lot of mess and stress and unknowns to work through. Maybe you're physically and emotionally exhausted, and maybe you're not spending enough time surrendering it all in prayer and perhaps taking it out on your dear husband, (hypothetically, of course), instead. You know, the guy that's already dealing with all the same stuff right alongside you as it is? And you need these days to slow down just a little so that you can catch up, but you also hope they'd just hurry up and get out of your way already, too. That's pretty much maybe exactly where I've been lately. Those days.
We spent the weekend at the boat, and although completely unproductive in terms of our to do list, it was just what we needed to clear our heads and shift our perspective. We had several hours in the car to hash out, undistracted and uninterrupted, just the two of us, all of those feelings that come with taking this kind of leap. The kind of feelings that tend to manifest themselves in unhealthy and unproductive ways when left unaddressed for too long. So, when Riley found himself in a seven hour celestial navigating class on Saturday (I knew well enough that I needed to sneak out of there 45 minutes into it) and when we woke to pouring rain on Sunday, we knew not only that absolutely nothing was going to get accomplished, but that we were okay with that as well. Instead, we spent the rest of our weekend talking and also bonding, in an unlikely "first" for us, over a new book. Sometimes, just the simple reassurance that someone else is on your team, on the same page you are, is all the productivity a weekend really needs, anyway.