So, I only asked you guys if you had any questions for me…oh, about a month ago, so I'm sincerely sorry it has taken me this long to start answering them. I had considered doing so in a video, but you wouldn't believe how easy it is to find excuses not to. The wind was too loud, the boat was rocking too much, I hadn't showered in too many days, I didn't have enough wifi to download it anyway… you know, the usual. So we'll just stick to good, old fashioned type.
1. What made you decide to live on a boat?
Riley had come up with this idea as kind of a "someday before I die," thing, but he couldn't stop talking about it. So we decided to make it a "right now before we have kids," thing instead. We were both feeling like we needed to shake things up a little, and it seemed like as good a time as any to do it.
2. Do you and your husband run out of things to talk about? Is it difficult spending a lot of time together with not much time to yourself?
I'd say that instead of running out of things to talk about, we seem to have better, more meaningful conversations than we've ever had before. Especially lately, as we're trying to figure out what we want next in life and what steps we need to take to make that happen.
As far as having time to ourselves, sometimes Riley might run errands on shore while I stay behind with the boat, or one of us will sit outside while the other one's inside. It's not much space, haha, but it seems to do the trick!
3. How did your families handle this decision and being gone for the holidays?
Both of our families were really encouraging and supportive from the very beginning. Since we lived near both of our immediate families in Virginia, it was an adjustment not seeing each other whenever we felt like it. But we've stayed in touch on the phone, and we've had some family come and visit us along the way too, which was really nice. We sure did miss a lot of holidays, but maybe that will just make next year all the more special!
4. Is there anything that you wish you would have packed because it would be handy to have on the boat? Anything that you packed that you haven't used and have been tempted to throw overboard?
In general, I actually think we did pretty well when it came to packing. Especially considering we had never done anything like this before! I definitely should have brought more winter layers though, and we both wish we would have brought along some movies and tv shows on dvd!
I did pack way too many bathing suits. I only really needed one maybe three times. I had also packed a few nicer things, thinking that we might want to go out more, but when it comes down to it, getting on and off a dinghy all the time is tricky and things get wet and dirty, so I've been living in just jeans and t-shirts.
5. Any creature comforts that you miss?
At this point, the list could be really long! We both miss the ease of having our own shower and a real bathroom, a rectangular bed, a car to get around… and really anything else that comes along with living in a house! I miss my shoes. And this sounds silly but...terry cloth. Microfiber towels just aren't the same! Oh, and a paycheck sounds pretty good, too!
Thanks again for submitting all of your questions, and waiting so long for answers! I divided them up, so I'll be posting part 2 next week. That one involves some "potty talk," so that should be fun!